[Feature]: AutoDeploy: optimize nest_sequences + prepare_metadata functions

[lucaslie]

🚀 The feature, motivation and pitch

Right now, we are doing some redundant/duplicate computation in those to compute different types of metadata for various attention backends. Revisit those and cut down on the required ops

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