Upgrade collector dependencies to 0.140.0/0.140.1/1.46.0

[drewrelmas]

#1458 did not pass CI in isolation - combining it with latest Collector dependencies should work.

Note: Collector-Contrib dependencies were released at v0.140.1 due to some release process failures.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 83.87%. Comparing base (003401a) to head (05c782f).
⚠️ Report is 3 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main    #1470      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   83.91%   83.87%   -0.04%     
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  Files         410      410              
  Lines      112022   112022              
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- Hits        94002    93960      -42     
- Misses      17486    17528      +42     
  Partials      534      534              

Components	Coverage Δ
otap-dataflow	85.58% <ø> (-0.07%)	⬇️
query_abstraction	80.61% <ø> (ø)
query_engine	90.58% <ø> (ø)
syslog_cef_receivers	∅ <ø> (∅)
otel-arrow-go	53.50% <ø> (ø)

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